Since having my first child, I have become very passionate regarding the topic of breastfeeding. I struggled with low supply and a child who was unable to latch but because I knew of breastmilk's many long-lasting health benefits, I pumped what I could until he was twelve months old, while also supplementing with formula. In preparation for my second child's birth, I researched galactogogues to help increase what was likely to again be a minimal milk supply due to multiple endocrine disorders, met with lactation consultants, made sure that I had several electric and hospital-grade pumps available to increase my pumping output, and most helpful of all, I surrounded myself with people who knew how much I wanted to succeed in breastfeeding past one year and were willing to support me in that goal. My daughter was able to latch, and while my supply was still low, I was able to personally provide her with about half of what she needed each day. My wonderful support system stepped in and provided donor milk for the rest, stocking my freezer so that she received breastmilk until she was 18 months old. While I would have loved to breastfeed for even longer, I am happy to have at least given my daughter a bounty of immunities and nutrients while bonding and sharing those exquisite moments with her.
During my time as a nursing mother, and ever since, I have acted as a breastfeeding advocate and support network for friends, co-workers, clients, and even strangers. Sometimes this means offering empathy, giving guidance or information regarding laws on public feeding, pumping breaks, et cetera, or pointing families to support groups and resources specifically for breastfeeding mothers. It also means not pressuring, guilting, or shaming mothers into breastfeeding.
With all of the time that I have spent reading about and researching breastfeeding, I am surprised that I just now found the article "Breastfeeding in the Land of Genghis Khan" by Ruth Kamnitzer. This amazing piece details the author's experience, as a breastfeeding mother, of moving to Mongolia from Canada where the social climate and expectations related to breastfeeding are very different. In Mongolia, breastfeeding in public isn't just common; it's expected and accepted as completely natural. Kamnitzer (2011), in my absolute favorite part of the article, illustrates this perfectly with the following vignette:
When I walked through the market cradling my feeding son in my arms, vendors would make a space for me at their stalls and tell him to drink up. Instead of looking away, people would lean right in and kiss Calum on the cheek. If he popped off in response to the attention and left my streaming breast completely exposed, not a beat was missed. No one stared, no one looked away—they just laughed and wiped the milk off their noses. (para. 8)
There is no pressure to wean children from the breast at 6 months or 12 months, as is often the case in North America; Mongolian children often breastfeed until their third birthday or beyond. The article mentions that it's not even uncommon for adults to drink leftover breastmilk; there is no attached taboo or stigma. Clearly, they "get it" in Mongolia! One of my current personal/professional goals is to help others "get it" by having my workplace certified as breastfeeding friendly for both the public and employees. More information on what that means can be found here: http://www.c-uphd.org/documents/maternal/Breastfeeding-Friendly-Business-Rating-System.pdf If we normalize breastfeeding, mothers, children, families, employers, and communities will all benefit.
References
Kamnitzer, R. (February, 2011). Breastfeeding in the land of Genghis Khan. In Culture Parent. Retrieved March 14, 2014, from http://www.incultureparent.com/2011/02/breastfeeding-land-genghis-khan/
Erica,
ReplyDeleteThe more attention or awareness made to support breastfeeding in public will lead to others being receptive. At least with your dedication and the people you reach there will be a connection made to inform and maybe they will spread the message.
I was unable to breast feed either of my children so I understand the frustration, I do know that formula is great as well. I am wondering if you will run into any issues advocating for breast feeding in the workplace, etc. now that there has been additional research into how breast feeding is not "so-much" better than formula now. Check out this article and see if it affects your perspective http://www.babble.com/mom/breast-isnt-best-a-closer-look-at-new-study-saying-breastfeeding-benefits-have-been-overstated/
ReplyDeleteHi Steph,
DeleteI've read the linked article before and don't think it will create issues with me trying to create a breastfeeding friendly workplace as the article doesn't have any evidence against breastfeeding. I want mothers, no matter how they feed their babies, to feel that they are safe and supported.
Erica,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your vignette! I always found it interesting that in other countries breastfeeding in public seems to be no big deal at all and completely normal and here I've meet mothers who feel guilty if their child needs to be fed in public. I wish you luck in your advocating for breastfeeding and having your workplace as a breastfeeding friendly environment!
Wow! I had no idea about Mongolian children. I stopped nursing as soon as each one got their first teeth and bit me once! Once was enough to quit. Lol! However, the earliest child with a tooth was 9 months old. All of my children got their teeth late, thankfully! I really enjoyed the story too! I agree that "If we normalize breastfeeding, mothers, children, families, employers, and communities will all benefit." It is an important job to give that baby all the nutrients he/she can get! Thanks for sharing!
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